Enter discipline expectations
Sometimes it can be very difficult to say something to communicate with your child. Set clear expectations about what is acceptable behavior and what is not absolutely necessary to successfully teach your child right from wrong. If the parameters are unclear or that the child learns that the rules apply in a situation but in a different situation is the same rule, it makes for confusion and frustration on both sides.
Sit down with your child on time and line-out, the expectations and the consequences of misconduct or wrongdoing. Make it clear that there is no doubt, no room for negotiation at the time of the offense and whether this behavior is to be in company of his discipline. Rules regarding your child safety, health or well-being should be no room for negotiation when being set or enforced. Other rules can be discussed openly and honestly with your child and focus on measures that forged that both parents and child to agree. If necessary, make a contract between parents and children. Put everything in black and white, is in the language your child to understand clearly. For younger children, you may want a cadre of good behavior in the contract, and every week that goes by the violations found without their favorite activity or special you can get to develop. The connection between good deeds and special time with mom and / or parent can understand the currency it.
However, all children must understand that to teach the discipline of its kind, what is acceptable behavior and what is not. It can act as if children fight rules and regulations seem, but in reality we know that these parameters are for their welfare, health permits, safety, and they are capable of a mature man to be wise decisions.
